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To begin in understanding this blog, we need to go very much to the beginning which is that in early years of the internet their were but a few social media sites of which the first I joined was Friends Reunited that linked people by school, college, university and work and that put me in touch with people who I had shared my boyhood with.

Another early site was Experience Project which I looked up stories about boys who liked some girls things and even attire but that was where I found how I felt was very much at odds with things such as transsexuality, online "sissy culture" with a strong sexual side and that.

This was something I wrote there in July 2012:

"Although as adult littles go I'm more pleated, I do from time to time enjoy being frillied up.

This can take the form of either frilly edging on blouses or frilly knickers, sock tops and sometimes petticoats underneath skirts, loving the whole swooshing feeling as one walks or dances about.

It leaves me feeling very feminine something that gives me a real buzz as much as permanent reminder of my gurlish self although it may not work so well for hiking!!!"

I read a piece on fairy broad church site - possibly too broad for most things- that summed up what I felt.

"A tomboy as most know is a girl who prefers to dress, act and play like a boy, a Janegirl is a boy who prefers to do the same but as a girl.  The thing is tomboys are accepted by nearly everyone but Janegirls are not.  A boy who identifies as a janegirl is belittled for doing so. 

Why can't boys be just as accepted as the tomboys are.  It restricts the imagination of said janegirl and places limits on the boys ability to learn all facets of life.  Mothers should teach their sons that being feminine is okay and does not restrict their ability to go as far in life as others. 

I know of several boys who like to wear dresses and play with dolls but are afraid to show this side of themselves.  I mean after all we are all basically the same with 23 sets of DNA, bot Y (male) and X (female) chromosomes, so why shouldn't boys be allowed to dress in dresses since girls can wear male clothing without repute?

I don't use the term "SISSY" as I find it to be a negative and demeaning term just like the "N"word for blacks or "FAG or QUEER" for homosexual males or females." Melodie.

The reason I don't use the "S" word is all too often it used in fetishized sexual context and by those who are. They are in no way what I am, a boy by sex and the boy equivalent to a Tom Boy at that.

Now I don't have an issue with "little sissy gurl" as it clearly relates having some sissy traits that I do have but puts them in the context of being "little" - an adult but child state - where sexual stuff would be inappropriate cos we're in a child's headspace.

I am happy to use the term Jane Girl in that context as that person who is happy with being biologically male because I like my body although as a term it's very much underground so I would accept "little sissy gurl" from you as that's from a lexicon that's understood better.

Plus everyone's an individual coming at things their own way.

I can and do wear short trousers where they make more sense and I am also age dysphoric which does figure hugely in being mainly in a child-like headspace involuntary all the time (it's not "age play").

I, Tammy am also an eternal Brownie following the program, enjoying and learning more about things and myself from it.

While Cubs was the expected thing back then, truthfully the World of Brownies and Girl Guiding is more up my alley.