Wednesday 1 May 2024

The Summer gurl

Not quite a follow up to last weeks post but more along the same lines, the little side of sissy comes from the child-like rooted in your childhood experiences, the things you did and they things you wished you could of but didn't do.

Take comics for instances, they were a staple not just of our own reading but part of our social currency as you talked about them sharing them except of course as assigned as male sissies generally we were never bought the ones we wanted and had to be careful over how we did get to read them such as sisters or "hidden" contacts with girls who twigged we weren't like the boys they knew.


The introduction page bypassing the one where "Presented to" would be inscribed, Just image it with Tammy  there!

Now onto the sort of featured story we'd really like of our girl friends, time spent together and adventures rather than war and gang stuff.

We all knew a Betty Bunter.

Cos we're gurls of kind Summer means something special to us, like showing ,more of our natural beauty off so we buy new clothes for the season.

That's a nice Fruit of the Loom pink jersey polo top that just looks the part.


Then there's a lovely sweatshirt with ribbed cuffs and waist also in dusty pink.

Teamed with a nice pleated skirt like this would be just the thing for the modern sissy gurl with with either knee socks or tights.


Wednesday 24 April 2024

The Integrated Brownie Pt. 2

After last weeks post we return to an element of being an adult little gurl which is your interests and for me it's always been scouting and one difficulty in assembling a uniform is that quite simply unless you are looking at replica uniforms as worn from the 1950's to the 1990's and the Jeff Banks inspired uniform reboot coming in simply you won't fit in the official one today.

This you really need to reimagine a modern take one what a Brownie Uniform can be using tried and tested uniform colours.


The current uniform is very Hoodie Sweatshirt heavy, brown with yellow branding but you can take a leaf from current co-ed cubs and have a green jersey/sweatshirt you can badge up, very up to you if you want to attempt a brownie logo on the bottom like the Cubs one does.

Traditionally with the modern brownie uniform you have a sash you apply your badges to but you might as well take a leap out the co-ed cubs and place them on the Jumper

A bigger problem is the yellow polo shirt in brownies only goes up to 36 inch and is short in body with the Brownie Branding arranged in a semi circle on it but I use a regular schoolwear polo shirt that you can get in adult sizing that fulfils the function.

I don't see any mileage in adding a separate gold or yellow t shirt

That teamed with the brown skirt does make for a suitable uniform, modern but using traditional colours and easy to put together, sufficiently feminine for gurls like us.

You could change the colours to blue for a similar take on Guides.

Wednesday 17 April 2024

Mummy Dominants in the Sissy Gurl world

It's a new week so I thought I'd look at an aspect of sissiness


There are a lot of ways people end up down this rabbit hole and for what it is worth I don't believe anyone can *make you* but certain contexts do push buttons that let out what actually is already in you.

A common situation that may be a fantasy, a thing possibly connected with your childhood experiences as a sissy or for some lucky ones, the reality is having a parent like figure with a dominant streak, not by any means full on bdsm.


That is as broad as it is long, not every aspect might be you but she's more a authoritarian parent figure to which you might add wants to dress you as pretty feminine gurl which it so happens, deep down you wish to be.

You may as I was for a period a bit off the rails when it came to attitudes and behaviours needing a bit of old school parenting, it may that actually you find it a whole lot more comfortable when someone else has the final say and calls most of the shots.


Let's get this straight: In your minds eye you are that child, that little sissy gurl, nobody is suggesting you ever place an actual child in a kink related space but somethings within that do come from the parental angle such as having the last say in any matter be it bedtimes or what you're wearing.

They express verbally and by body language their disapproval.

That as a little adult sissy gurl you're looking for.


You can't dodge or otherwise fudge this one but while not everyone is into spanking which is their right, it's often very much in the mix and for some of us was part of childhood experiences


She may introduce you to some more girlish fun you never did before like ballet dancing, things like flower decoration or life lessons you missed like deportment to carry yourself better.

Positive encouragement and setting a  program to explore who you really are after years of denial, ridicule and masking it can be a great role for the Mummy Dominant figure to teach you to let it all out which is more satisfying after all for you.

The only thing you need to do is take part in any exploratory conversations with her and allow her to pursue that with you


Being made up and learning to do your own make up can be part of this too from cute little sissy gurl to being a more grown up sissy gurl about town.


That really is the aim of it although the pronouns are wrong, and spending time with a dominant mummy figure should leave you more like this.


Wednesday 10 April 2024

Post Easter Party post

While I'm coming down from the littles Easter Party, here's a classic easter tale



A sissy easter is great thing.

Wednesday 3 April 2024

Easter time


Okay it is a couple of days after Easter Monday although yesterday I was having issues with bigger old windows that corrupted the usual browser to the point it had to be totally reinstalled eating up time and paw movement.

Computers just seem to be like that but anyway it's the time of year to be dressed in a pretty frilly dress as that little sissy gurl ready to enjoy all that easter has to offer.

I want that costume!

You may be off on an Egg Hunt, all being well I should be on a belated one next week, armed with your basket gently skipping as you look for your eggs which no doubt have been well hidden.




There's an Egg for consumption here, white cos I prefer white chocolate as it doesn't trouble my head as much compared to diary or especially dark which tends to last days on end.

Sissikins enjoyed easter for being her frilled up sissy self.

Wednesday 27 March 2024

Displaying our models



Making models was something we did as boys and girls back in the day from popular plastic kits, carefully following the instructions joining a group of parts together at a time using plastic cement.

The other sort were made from lightweight balsa wood fitted by grooved slots or plastic couplers.

It was unusual for girls to join in and as fur us gurls, well forget it but at least in today's more enlightened times the rest of us would be bought and encouraged to join in, learning new skills and STEM knowledge.

We then would apply the decals on sheet cutting of the one we needed one by one so all the markings were neatly done before showing to our friends, teachers and other adults we knew.

I loved this part of childhood heaps.

Wednesday 20 March 2024

Sissy gurl allys

Pasts come into play and we've talked about birthdays recently not least because what sadly was missing from the last two birthdays was not just the closest feminine influence on me but also in time coming out.

There were in my earlier years others that I talked a lot a lot about this with such as Linda who found the idea of a boy not wishing to be socially at least one hard to get her head around initially and Louise who did a total deconstruction job on the state of my clitty in the presence other girls as present you looked scarlet.

Between them they removed me from available boy to sissy gurl plaything.


But what is being a sissy gurls ally really all about given you've had this feeling you didn't really fit in where you'd been told and expected you would?

I guess it is that they try to find out where you do and support you in being more of yourself like a friend I had in residential college did that I came out to where I was dressing femme.

It may involve encouraging you to dress as you feel, taking pictures for posterity that mutual friends in future might see and them actively encouraging and pushing you to dress as your sissy self at least in front of them, using your sissy name in public.

Them telling you they WANT you in dresses from now on as they've seen how calm and happy you are following your true destiny as a sissy gurl.


It takes a special kind of sister to unravel and bring out the sissy gurl in all hur frilliness from within her brother capturing that for posterity, seeing you at your happiest.

An sissy gurl ally I'd say spends the time to learn all about you, exploring and even cajoling you to let it out.

She will take you to the lingerie shop to buy your first girlie panties and may be that matching bra before heading home to put you in them, getting you to open up more, talking with her with your sissiness exposed before working on getting you into short little girl dresses.

She finds ways of being dominant as you just melt.

Your life moves more and more in accordance with what you are as they ensure you can never go back to where you were.

That's what a Sissy Gurl Ally is.

With thanks to all that made sissikins come out with it.

Wednesday 13 March 2024

The Integrated Brownie


The genius of this post is a long as this blog goes which is to say when you are a sissy gurl who was brought up on paper at least as a boy many of your social connections  and memories are influenced by the gender divide and this was true of Scouting.

It wasn't that contact with with "the enemy" wasn't always stopped and sometimes even sanctioned as for instance I might of been directed to sit with and even work together with a girl just most activities were self contained so you may as well of come from two different lands.

The thing was sometimes actual integration of gender divided units did happen such as joint camps where Cubs and Brownies while in separate units did take part in shared activities even if you may of had specific time toward your badgework.


The Americans for reasons best kept to themselves styled themselves as Girl Scouts even if they had a Brownies section and these two handbooks form a part of that outlining the program to transition to the next level and around understanding the world around you and all within it.

Sometimes people try to say Scouts has a different and better feel to it than Girl Guiding but both contain elements of each other and while scouts has a more rugged image, Girl Guiding isn't all uber gentile or a soft option.

Tammy could of easily belong in that first picture in more enlightened times as the first person in the second row from the front dressed then in hur Brown Tunic in with the girls as a gurl or today in a simple brown pleated skirt, presenting femininely.

Yes you may of needed separate space for changing for reasons of modesty but that could be easily provided but for the Tammy's of this world it would of been a sensible solution, placed and under the rules of feminine section but not cut off from the boys finding a balanced approach as a gurl, able to do more girly things but join in kickabouts just like Tomboys.

Tammy is a modern Brownie as  Gurl.


Wednesday 6 March 2024

Birthday

 


Well, it comes around every twelve months with its complications like the ungurly presents some do insist on presenting you with but it is actually here although last years was all messed up and with visitors you might be a bit constrained about how you want to dress on what is your birthday.


Whatever the challenges you may face, a sissies birthday is always better with suitably sissy presents like soft frilly knickers with lace trimming and you'll almost certainly find a way of putting them on YOUR day won't you, sissy?
 

While I don't know about any other presents and they can always be added as an update I do the know the Super Audio cd of Genesis's Selling England By The Pound by Analogue Productions as part of the Atlantic 75 years anniversary delayed from last November is here.

Given the record version was acclaimed, I'm looking forward to spinning this disc


There will be a fuller write up around the 2004-2005 installment of Now Millennium but this gathering of notable tracks from those two years will help bringing back the sounds of that era coupled with a book about the artists and times.

I'm sure there will be some money to put towards a few other purchases looking towards Easter and Summer get together and unlike last year we'll have a small meal together at a local pub, something we always did when Mom was alive and something that didn't happen last time as that's been booked.


It's MY birthday and going forward the only thing that matters is being true to my own sissy self and it begins by acknowledging it today.

Wednesday 28 February 2024

Wings 1973 redux

This week we are going back in time with two albums that have joined the record collection and only otherwise exist in the 1993 limited edition DCC 24 karat gold plated cd editions.

Sir Paul McCartney and Wings are not fully represented in vinyl in part due to the cd revolution coming as I bought many of his albums on that format and part due to finding a number of them not titles that I play that much so what is on vinyl are original childhood copies, well cared for of things like Ram, Band On The Run, Venus & Mars, London Town and Tug Of War plus Wings Greatest the 1978 compilation that had non album singles on it.

Recording for Red Rose Speedway began at Olympic Studios in London between 6–30 March 1972

 It was initially planned as a double album and Paul McCartney decided to include some unreleased songs that had originally been recorded during the Ram sessions in 1971, before the formation of Wings, two of which, "Get on the Right Thing" and "Little Lamb Dragonfly", appeared on the final album.

The album ends with an 11-minute medley of the songs "Hold Me Tight", "Lazy Dynamite", "Hands of Love" and "Power Cut", which was made in a similar style to the Beatles' Abbey Road medley


The album was originally issued in the UK on May 4th 1973 on lp, 8 track tape and cassette but was treated to a special limited edition half speed mastered cut on April 22nd 2023 for Record Day Special which I have to say is most impressive.

It keeps the 12 page illustrated booklet folded and is housed in a thick gatefold sleeve.

That edition was pressed by GZ Media in the Czech Republic.

There are anniversaries that you may quite enjoy and there are others that just remind you of how many tens of years have gone by such as the recent anniversary of the 1973 multi-million seller, Band On The Run which was marked on February 2nd with the release of full original album and extended versions on lp record and compact disc.

Too bad there wasn't a limited edition 8 track as as those of us around then will recall there was and indeed I did own the UK edition which sounded rather good where it was played at home and in the car player a lot.


I opted for the single lp version as I have little use for a disc of demos as much as musicologists get a buzz out comparing songs as they evolve and for another this uses the US track listing that added Helen Wheels, a 1973 single to the second side of the UK album.


It came pressed by Optimal in Germany with the original poster plus OBI.

Being cut using a Half Speed mastering system from high resolution files from the original analogue tapes allowed it to sound much better than the original US Apple edition and even challenge the UK which was really good with strong bass.

I was delighted with this edition.

Wednesday 21 February 2024

Winter away week Part.2

It took much longer to get back than anticipated because of terrible road conditions thanks to an accident and a person trying to take their life but here's the continuation post. 

Because this was a littles get together for adult girls and gurls there were children's toys to play with and the only thing that resembled a punishment being put on the norty step after being verbally chastised in full view of everyone.

Anything else in individual groups in their rooms was strictly private.


We made Viking Boats and sailed them on the lake which needed proper footwear to keep the mud off you 

Because it's for  Littles, dollies  were out in force and indeed we were reminded to bring our dollies with us so this sissy played with them which felt so so fitting for me.

Tammy with help made Barbie cakes with pretty pink icing measuring the mixture which made me feel like a young gurl all over again.



There was a Barbie themed party with sausage rolls, cakes and jelly on offer and games like musical chairs and pass the parcel.

Sissikins actually won pass the parcel and so won hur Foil Art Set to decorate pretty girls with.

A delightful littles time was had for sissikins.

Wednesday 14 February 2024

Winter away week

Sissikins is away this week so as ever I don't take my computer with me because being away isn't about hiding behind a screen becoming totally involved with something I could do anywhere it's really about being WITH other littles.


It's about running and skipping about together in the nearby  grounds, fields and country lines hand in hand without a care in the world as little gurl you where being that is just accepted as much as getting high on sugar from sweets.


It's about play as in games like rock paper scissors as much as running around playing tag or water pistol fights and indoor games classes.

In the evenings we have quiz or two and read a bedtime story.


It can be a all gurls kickabout enjoying a non competitive football session whenever we feel like as being a sissy gurl doesn't mean we can't play and indeed today girls play it too

We do have netball games too to let steam off when we aren't making things and enacting stories featuring our makes.

While because you're sharing public space you need to think about when and how, you can and I love going down to the park to play in the playground on swings and climbing frames


It's all one magical time when you get to spend days with others being a little sissy gurl all dolled up in your frillies paying with dollies.