Clues from the past

 

Time was both girls and boys did wear dresses at least until the age of five because it was easier to change babies and infants in dresses before boys would be "breeched" aka put into trousers and treated more as males.

It didn't always run to that model with boys remaining in dresses for longer as this picture shows but he looks so good  in it and yet it's not "soppy" nor are his toys as he is  just a boy in a dress.

I just love it.

Today you can be just you as you wish to be and that's what is going on bit by bit little or more middle.

Helping me change

 You dodge topics, even agree sometimes they can be over played and over present but there's little point in denying elements of sissy life do include spanking which might be more from a little sissy angle rather like the childhood spankings we had or they may come in the more adult sissy role although let's be straight we're not talking about children today nor are we saying that welfare even as legal adults doesn't matter - it does hugely.

As we are between all sorts of posts looking more at getting out from just a classic schoolgurl look then  spanking can come in either for resisting exploring other sides like dressing more like a older teen or young woman or maybe in being dressed in more overly feminine frilly forms well out of your comfort zone.

Spanking need not involve the use of external implements just a firm hand literally can make an impression as you position me over a chair or over your own knee.

Given you'd NEVER have me in trousers it's just so easy for you to flip my skirt up and start spanking my bottom before you take my frilly knickers down to really turn it red before ordering me up scolding me further with them still down well on display just to keep the humiliation up beyond the stinging behind.

This is what a changing Tammy NEEDS - SPANKING 

DO PLEASE SUPPORT IT

Moving on

Sometimes on this blog I feel I get stuck in a rut we need to move a little out of and perhaps talk a little more around.

For most of us, we progress as our ages get older as much as I feel being grown up somewhat overrated and often cuts outs things that have good reason to remain in your life such as your interests and yes how you might present.

Our formative influences include our parents, the wider family, peers and school with our parents and the wider family being the biggest one as from the moment we were born, they dressed us, as we got older that changed but for most people, in your teens your peers and "fashion" count for more as you establish more of your own sense of self.

There tends to be a "battle of wills" and for most, you win but usually with some concessions to your parents concerns.

It's different for anyone who is transexual or like me, a sissy cos in most situations your parents will deny it, certainly won't do anything sensible like channel  that more like that our your peers which for many us of who were "assigned" as male they'd of developed a whole look so by the time comes they're ready to leave school they resemble more a "Young Woman".

We never did and I know speaking personally a part of my problem lies in just not developing a sense of being feminine sissy me that was closer to that of girls who were growing up when all I saw was the more obvious schoolgirl and my obsession with trying be more like her.

Really what I needed was assistance with learning to dress outside of a school context as a growing up gurl who might go parties, visit the cinema with friends as a confident young thing and that's where having some support from Mums, sisters and the like would of helped as they'd us develop that sense of older gurl that corresponded to older girl, more like an adult.

I need to learn to get that right as much as it's appropriate at other times to dress more like a schoolgirl and still at others as gurl with a sexual side when I feel that way.

There are many looks and really I need to widen them from now on for every situation and role.