Wednesday, 20 May 2026

Making space to be...US

The world we may want to live in may be different to where we are able to be at because of health or disabilities related reasons or it might be with difficult situations you are having to share space with people who don't necessarily understand that we are sissies and need to be ourselves.

Is it wrong then to think a bit about what we'd like and how we might find a way of expressing ourselves as challenging as life can be?

That might be how we'd like to have our bedrooms, full of cute stuffies, figurines and draws to keep our frillies in.

Is it possible to have a small space for some of your own with maybe a strategically placed covering we can be pulled down when others who aren't so appreciative might be around or a cleaner might come in?

Perhaps look at a more concealed wardrobe space where our dresses and uniforms might be hung  out of sight of visitors or window cleaners,

It's not that anything is wrong with us, far from it, but about looking at making being us more possible in the world we're living in.


kk

Monday, 11 May 2026

Feminine May

May, that month that forms the bridgehead between the awakening of Spring and the glorious sun of Summer moves forward with its calendar comprising of two bank holidays and for many of us the memories of learning to dance the maypole gracefully weaving a plait with the girls who seemed more co-ordinated than we did. 

 Twenty-ten is shaping up to be quite a year as we work on my feminine presentation such as wearing these La Senza satin high cut knickers with fully elasticated legs.


The rear is sculptured to present my bottom in a feminine way complete with a frilly lace skirt across the cheeks while the overall impression is that of more mature sophistication




It's not even just all that but wearing short pretty skirts with netting like this Hell Bunny goth one as I let my feminine side right out more like a teen would.


Here it is with hold up stockings with pretty bows
I was encouraged to try wear it with stocking and suspenders to take me completely out of my comfort zone so I could see what I could be like.

Wednesday, 6 May 2026

Makeovers

A few things have been happening at certain sites such as changes around how long images can be stored  as storage eats capacity and hosting your own costs and  some questions around "lumping in" different scenes such as abdl and sissy that may have some crossover for a minority but most are very much in one camp or the other. 

Makeovers are a thing many of think about, the idea somebody would assist us in making a total transformation of presentation, not just putting on an outfit but make up,maybe a wig and some lessons on deportment as let's be honest if you were socialized as a male your walking and way you stand, pick things up and so on is anything but refined.

You might of fancied something like that when you were younger - it's not uncommon to feel different than your peers - or role playing something on those lines today.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         


It may involve say a trusted friend - perhaps another sissy you know - who knows all about applying make up which isn't something you might of had much experience of when you were younger and first felt this way or a Mistress.

One thing regardless of how it happened is you felt so elated by the experience and anywhere you may have gone as that fully made over sissy that you just fall to sleep, in love with the real you.

Perhaps that's what sissy really needs?