Musings

You'd worry had I of been a modern gurl born in the 2010's surrounded by interconnectedness from dawn to dusk from my Smartwatch, Smartphone and gaming Pc when I've had my struggles with online addiction in the recent past being up to two in the morning at one stage despite being in bone years at least.

So yip, Smart isn't always so.

This is the big conundrum for those of us who do love being feminine, loving our skirts and dresses.

It's like every slight possibility of unwanted exposure from stairways so open you can see up our skirts, that moment when tired you just want to spread your legs a little and you're obliged  to keep them forced together on tightly crossed least some MAN see you (and start having thoughts as if we asked for HIS attention).

Of course the attention of your Dominant is a different thing...

Like most I'll sit as I find it convenient at home. 

Little sissy gurl bedtimes

This was rather more the post I wished to make last week because really when you are more a Adult Little Gurl rather than a Big Gurl with all hur grown up interests  and sexual identity some might say "and what exactly sissy dressing".

I would say it was on the highly sugary side of little girl dressing baby pink or blue, very much about soft, smooth materials and very much feminine.

Sissikins has new pj's with a satin smooth finish that gives off very much a gurlish feel, you could never mistake them for boys which makes total sense

Because it can get warm as an option  I did get a pair of  matching French Knickers that could be worn with the top with pretty lace detail, again very gurlish and smooth feeling.

It all helps with feeling great as sissy me.

A bedroom for feminine LSG you

 This time we're looking at the bedroom of the little sissy gurl cos too few talk about it.

A big chunk of the other blog is more around the life of a Middle while this looks at the other aspects of being a middle with a littleside but given the connectedness a post around it is justified.

The bedroom of a Middle I feel should be as close to that of a Tween or younger teen as possible not necessarily tradition in it's furnishings but true to original intent of being her place of rest and sleep, away from the buzz of daytime.

It should be very much an expression of their girlish innocence with cute simple bedding with matching curtains and lightshades with just what she needs to get her beauty sleep in and nothing more being free from techo attractions calling her as she lies in bed.

There will be shelving for their plushies, teddies and dollies that are not in the bed or positioned on the chair as well as his books with a small rack for current comics that they read by themselves with a small angle right.

One thing there will not be is a place for their cellphone or netbook to be resting because you will have them hand them over to you as his Caregiver before he goes to bed and be given then once he is up because you are responsible for this as their privilege.

You may restrict other technology such as audio or tv stuff  preferring them to share with others and view with you to help keep a close shared bond alive rather than have retreat to a inner world avoiding conversation.

There will be a wardrobe with enough space to hang gurlish clothes including her uniform properly on hangers with space for shoes and slippers and draws for her underwear in addition to the cute pj's you'll put them in like the little sissy they are.

The overall feel will be light and airy with lots of space to twirl around in and walk along with ease across the whole room.

You will have rules about keep it tidy being prepared to work with him but you will spank their bottom firmly in the room when he fails too without good reason so she learns the importance in doing this and following the rules.

The looks of a gurl

After last weeks post, I thought I'd return to something more specifically gurlish as there's no denying that how others see our own preferences for presentation often has been an issue even if our intent isn't to be deliberately provocative.

That  short pleated kilt-skirt with mary janes and knee length socks look is very much me, a younger gurl at play with your colourful fan by the beach enjoying your self thing.

We can be so conditioned by how other people have seen and even had us dress it may take a while and strict handling to rid you of any lingering hints or self doubt that in all reality you are no longer a him but a Hur, to be seen and acknowledged as a gurl from now on.

More school girl or preppy female dress is something I am very comfortable with.

It is a good idea to remind yourself of what your true nature is as a delicate, sweet submissive gurl and why you need to ensure through your dress you are sending our the "correct" message.

Winter time gurl

We're heading well into winter and there are events and things which really are tied into the little side of sissy gurl me.

Around this time of year we start to have parties, especially Christmas parties which can have themes so being made up as say a Cow Girl, letting our imaginations run wild enacting a story that's evolving as you play appeals as much as games like sticking the tail on the donkey and musical chairs.

It's the time of year you might feel working on the Gurl side of me needs a bit of a push so you'd encourage me wear party or cocktail dresses with soft flowing materials to really push out the feminine side with matching knickers

Being winter the leaves are falling so why wouldn't you want to gather up leaves and dance around them outside in warmish dress as they all fall around you?