Being sissy 2026 style

 It's the second longest battle I have fought over identity issues over the one bought what my real age is and its implications when it comes to what I can be expected to do and and the degree of supervision I need in everyday life is when essentially you're still a child. 

Having the confidence to express how you feel not just in words but also in how you present such as your dress and for it to be respected is very important. 

It does not matter how much I have masculine traits, how happy I was to play rough and tough with the boys I have a sizable feminine side running through me that at the time was never able to be let out as the whole me.

Within age dysphoric life inclining playing I need to be able to play feminine games and undertake those activities as a part of being still a child amongst children.

I need full access to the whole range of children's clothes of my era and specific time devoted to being in skirts and dresses and more feminine underclothes not just to express the here and now of my gender but as a therapy for past issues.

I struggle with stockings but these would do the trick being more a patterned stocking but in below the knee which goes will just over the knee skirts or dresses, more down the sissy side without getting into ything overly bedroom fun and games.

I think there are some just over the knee ones too - I probably need to look more into that - but given these days I'm in satin and frilly panties this sort of dressing makes sense where if I'm just playing dashing about cotton socks with cute characters are great and school wear is all big proper knickers and three quarter length black, white more often or grey socks as a matter of course.

As a little sissy gurl, it matters to me that I express this side of me, being more open about as some have tried to say I can't be a little as an age regressed adult and even bullying me over it.

I can be cute as a feminine little sissy gurl in a pure age regressed side with nothing sexual in that space and I have every right to be that person. 

That's what matters.

Be the doll!

A few well-being issues today, scratch that, since the weekend so it's gonna be short and sweet.

I like playing although there are times when other events do rather take over that you can do little about, they may be craft kits, lego, which in it's original form was only limited by your own imagination rather than the vast amounts of movie and tv tie-in sets they've issued over the last fifteen or so years.

There are those things we hug and involve in stories we act out such as our teddy bears, hello kitties and dolls.

Dolls do matter for gurls, as it's often our springboard to seeing what who looks may be like and where we might wear them as soft pastel outfits wouldn't do for fetching the coal in or doing a bit of gardening as much as we might feel like a million dollars dressed like that.

We may experiment with hair fashions too and a vast array of accessories but you know where it ends up for many of us?

Before you know it, we work on becoming the doll and didn't we just want that from our drab pasts, a total change so let's make 2026, the hear of being the dolly we love, upping our femming!

Fashion musings

Eighties fashions for girls was an influence for some of us but it wasn't all satins and neon colours there was something of a more peasant, rustic revival and very very dressy.

This more obviously girlie mode of dressing was more me than the seventies trend for unisex styles for having short shorts and jeans with everything and very much remains with me as much as like a pretty satin party dress.

Changes beneath the surface

When this blog split off from the other the expectations were that that one would just hang around as record of the past  and this would be directed primarily at the younger more Little Gurl end but the what happened with the other was over time it became a way of working through the more adult side.

That said, ultimately there is only one you so some elements cross over and one concerns presentation which started on that other side as a way of exploring how to raise my expression of sissiness in less overtly "adult" ways and migrated over.

These days I wear camisoles and Baby Dolls all the time as the material feels soft, it does better support my breast tissue which can be tender when the straps are suitably adjusted without the fiddling of bra fastenings.

It just feels better wearing them.

Similarly while at one time I'd of been in cotton regular  high cut knickers today I wear more satins and more frilly ones .

These include soft frilly lined and gathered bloomers that few girls would wear but I just love fitting snugly and together the look is very feminine but free from anything overly fetishized going well with satin dresses.

The Modern Sissy

The genius of this goes back to last week where we were away at a Littles meet where we'd only taken skirts with matching socks and tights and the BabyDoll nightdress and french knickers working through the last year and a bit of getting together a look for me that worked.

We've explored over the decades various ideas and takes around what being a Sissy Gurl is, how being "Little" fits into that and different presentations from the classic more adult sissy gurl to the more child-like little one and really the latter is the one that needs the attention.

You can just go with bigger versions of what actual girls wear which works fairly well around the Schoolgirl/gurl look but that's never all she is, she goes and hosts parties and visits places like the entertainment complex with bowling rings and a cinema.

What would the legally adult gurl would want to wear as school socks while "regulation" were never cool enough to wear at a party and where do we start getting a more sophisticated look?

Tights are an option, can be patterned but do get uncomfortable and aren't always the easiest of things to put on while stockings are basically inappropriate for children and for some of us difficult to put on and attach suspenders (garter straps).

For those of us who might like the elegance and sophistication of skin smoothing tights without the struggle to get them in your feet and the right the way up, socks with an more group up wide lace band going just over the knee would work well.

A sophisticated more grown up look for a gurl at a social occasion, easy to put on, hygienic and going well with smarter dresses and skirts. 

There are other things like for those more on classic Little Gurl princess with hur plushie that need not involve ankle socks or school pereline socks.

A rose woven pattern  with an elastic top helps to take that look and add a bit of elegance and sophistication to it.

These are what I really do like though.

I've always loved the look of stocking tops although I found tights easier (but not easy with my damaged hands) and the appeal of lace but these socks are really made for Cosplay wearing with Lolita dresses both as a social thing and also at Anime and Manga conventions role playing characters.

Now there are two styles these heart ones and some rose ones and both come in packs of two, one white which works well with dark dresses and skirts and the black that you'd use typically with white.

For me they replace stockings which is something on the more adult side mistresses had found worked well on me, making the most of my legs without both some of fetish connections that stockings today had rather than until the late 1960's women who were "old enough" just wore them and the issues of fastening (and getting them on neatly).

They work with all sorts of skirts and dresses in satin, wool and mixed fibres from the more modest satin dresses aimed for sissies to mid and mini skirts in polyester  or even leather

They can easily fit within a glamour sissy look

The week saw me have with the one exception of white gym knickers for underneath a skort I wore for sports as I feel gurls like me really are better wearing feminine sports gear wearing just satin relatively plain knickers.

I found in one sense having to wear them really made me feel so much more a gurl for having soft materials, lace trimming and pretty bows.

I think in the context we are talking about here rather than what you might wear re-enacting being a school girl in the past, wearing fairly traditional uniform including the "regulation" school socks and knickers, the adult but little gurl having a social life should wear such knickers as a matter of course as they are pretty and as that gurl, you want to be pretty.

Thus going forward Tammy, who as we all know is definitely a Sissy Gurl will now be wearing such panties coupled with socks such as those shown above when she is not "at school" Tm from now on.

This is a look that is "Sissy" but is Little occupying the sweet spot that takes in Little Girl princess and adds the glamour of satins, lace without getting into anything "adult" but clearly recognizable to gurls.

Tammy is a pretty Little Sissy Gurl and benefits from presenting in a manner that suits Little Sissies.

Good Gurl!

The Summer gurl

Not quite a follow up to last weeks post but more along the same lines, the little side of sissy comes from the child-like rooted in your childhood experiences, the things you did and they things you wished you could of but didn't do.

Take comics for instances, they were a staple not just of our own reading but part of our social currency as you talked about them sharing them except of course as assigned as male sissies generally we were never bought the ones we wanted and had to be careful over how we did get to read them such as sisters or "hidden" contacts with girls who twigged we weren't like the boys they knew.

The introduction page bypassing the one where "Presented to" would be inscribed, Just image it with Tammy  there!

Now onto the sort of featured story we'd really like of our girl friends, time spent together and adventures rather than war and gang stuff.

We all knew a Bessie Bunter.

Cos we're gurls of kind Summer means something special to us, like showing, more of our natural beauty off so we buy new clothes for the season.

That's a nice Fruit of the Loom pink jersey polo top that just looks the part.

Then there's a lovely sweatshirt with ribbed cuffs and waist also in dusty pink.

Teamed with a nice pleated skirt like this would be just the thing for the modern sissy gurl with with either knee socks or tights.

R.I.P Mary Quant

Last Thursday, it was announced the fashion designer, Mary Quant who had a massive influence in British fashion had died.

Mary was a number of things one being an early outstanding female entrepreneur opening her own store in the Kings Road, Chelsea, London and several others at an early age, that in an era a Woman could not get loans easily on her own.

Mary gave women their legs back having been covered up for a long period and shunted fashion as well award from elegant wear for grand social occasions to everyday life that allied itself with the growth of a younger market and things such as the "Mod" movement.

Her most famous creation was the Mini, as in a Mini skirt, something that liberating for women at the time and certainly as a sissy I am thankful for for showing more of our figures off rather than hiding it.

As she said, it named after her most loved automobile the Austin Mini, itself a design classic from 1959 which to gave freedom to many including younger women.

She and others who followed in her footsteps injected colour, experimentation with different materials such as pvc, got our hemlines up, gave us hotpants giving rise to "Swinging London".

Mary was awarded an O.B.E, Order of the British Empire in 1966 for services to fashion and here she is seen with it in a short skirted dress, clearly living a part of the life she sold to others.

By encouraging young and often female fashion students to get into retail, selling the clothes they knew their friends wanted she gave all of us more options and great chances to be ourselves.

That's why she merits an entry here.

Going back with events

 

While with other events in country in this last few days have taken us back us back a few decades or so and give us reason to look ahead to changes, this week I'm going back to twenty ten.

I was rather experimenting with looks beyond that had initially inspired me such as more formal office wear or the stuff of my schooldays, the blessed school uniform.

Things more Goth or Emo were more it so I had short  net like skirts, tops and over the knee ringer type socks although I did experiment also with wearing stockings with them.

Ditto lace up canvas shoes or heels although I tend to be rather wobbly on the feet with limited control of their movement.

It was a bit before the tartan micro skirts started to come in and with the netting underneath could give you a far bit of modesty although obviously you do mind how you sit.

The looks of a little sissy gurl like me

 If there ever was any real doubt at all over where I was coming from I think a lot of the posts I made around fashion probably would show it more because with some of compromises I felt were necessary they still very much "Tammy Girl" or the younger side of Top Shop than anything for people outside of their 20's.

This sort of thing is so me beyond talk of 'play clothes' or uniform liking knee or especially over the knee socks shorter more rounded skirts and relatively plain  but with some edge of fabric detail tops with longish sleeves as I don't feel super comfortable showing my shoulders and arms off.

Sissy gurls like me always wear girls exercise kit for games and p.e such as a traditional pleated wrap around games skirt .

Underneath we wear traditional matching girls gym knickers to go with our games skirt or skorts.

This is what I wear when I play sports with my friends.

Pinafore dress patterns

Hi, Hi peoples after a few days with a really bad migraine, I suppose you can say expect the unexpected cos I'm feeling very little at the minute with a few chunks of memory temporarily M.I.A. after that.
But anyway I felt like posting a little about dresses (gasp!).

Starting with this set of dress patterns from May 1950 looking a Mother and Daughter dresses and especially the aprons.

Third from the left just feels so me had I'd of been around back then.

 Most of these patterns are from the late 50's and the 60's and starting from the above while all are really nice, two stick out as potentially me rolled back to the age, the bottom left plaid one and especially the lower middle one in blue with the red ribbon.

I'm not really into 'fussy' designs that probably has something to do with finding dressing at times difficult by myself.

 From the second picture top right panel, that blue dress with the bow looks more the kind of thing I could worn at a party, Alice style as there's just about enough 'pouf' in the skirt to make a pleasant change from school dresses.

 This next set is from 1964 and I think it's the blue one with the detail on the bodice and again I like how the skirt hangs on it.

 Same era and it could be either although I suspect the blue check just edges in with a classic cut preferring an A line to a tube shape.

Fast forward to 1969, and it's the one on the left, bring out the white tights and the ribbon and I'd be in seventh heaven apart from feeling definitely little. And little I am!

And there with have it with aid of missing bits of memory to cut out any internal fighting, I, do admit to being a boy who loves pretty frilly dresses.

Darn it the secret's out!

Is there gonna be  a cry of "Can you please sow my button back on please?" next.

New Pj's for the Sissy Gurl

Brrr it feels cold right now and that translates on into staying warm at night although that loveable scallywag cat of mine put his paws through my old Dalmatian pj's last week.  Blooming cats,eh?

So i had to do something about it as the holes were pretty big so I bought these fleecy ones that are also ideal for just lounging about in first thing before formally getting dressed not that in my family that was exactly condoned.
They're really warm too!

Had it been more Summer then something more like this really would of made more sense as I like somethings that's more bows and frills in a way Pj's seldom are but with our winters being below minus four degrees c you need something thicker.

Wearing skirts in Winter

I recently heard a boy mention that he loved wearing skirts but it’s getting a bit cold for that now and he wishes he could wear skirts in the winter too

You can tho! And it made me sad that he felt so limited so here I shall compile skirt/dresses advice for any boys, trans girls, enbys, and anybody else who wants to wear skirts in the winter/fall but wants to be warmer!

(Source: I’m gender queer and like fashion)

1. It’s all about secret layers!

One option is you can get thermal tights, that are warmer than regular tights/stockings, and layer them with a second pair of thinner tights over them! My advice would be to get thermal ones in either black or something close to your skin tone.

With the skin tone ones you can layer thinner black tights over them and when they stretch it will just look like your skin underneath, and nobody will be able to tell you layered em!

If you need/want a 3rd layer, thigh high socks are your friend. they always look great.

If you have a longer skirt, slip skirts are pretty alright way to add another layer too!

2. Skirt material and length

Short skirts are still viable with the above strats, but cold wind might still be a problem for you. If it is I’d recommend going for a skirt of heavier material to help block wind out. This is especially effective if you are wearing a longer skirt! Longer and thicker it is, the better at being a shield it will be, basically.

And also darker colors absorb more heat from light and are a bit warmer too especially in the sun.

3. Leg hair

This won't actually effect the warmth, I don’t think, but stockings and tights are way more comfortable with shaved legs. I found with unshaved legs I could get them on just fine but had mad itching on my thighs, and sometimes the hair on my calves would hurt from being bent the wrong way.

So basically, shaving is not necessary, but it will most likely make tights/stockings/leggings more comfy for you.

4. Long coats and high boots

Longer coats are a great no matter what length of skirt you go for. Great wind protection and coziness.

Longer boots of any style, from basic to edgy, are great with shorter skirts for extra leg warmth!

I think that’s about it from me on this, I might be forgetting something but yeah here ya go hope this helps!

Oh actually, while I’m here, a few makeup advices:

Scented things like lotions and lip products are harmful to your eyes because of the scents! So are food products! Don’t use lotion or cooking olive oil to remove your makeup! (I guess I mean unless you literally have no other option eh, it’s just not healthy)

If you don’t have makeup remover wipes, Vaseline (the 100% pure petroleum jelly stuff) is a great makeup remover! Use plain tissues or a soft cloth, and be gentle around your eyes.

Sometimes your face/eye makeup is scented, so if you can, try to find unscented stuff basically. I’ve had eyeliner that was scented and made my eyes burn and water big time. Always worth checking for things you might be allergic to or that might have irritating scents!

Getting ready for New Term

Fast approaching end of Summer Vacations which for me  at least signifies the start of the Autumn Term and getting all your school requirements such as uniform sorted, ironed ready.
You know pretty much what my uniform is, and what it means to me so apart from anything else making sure everything is in top top shape really matters.

Apart from the socks as I like white just above the knee socks that's pretty much how mine looks and that's what I'm wearing this minute.

Apart from finding Peaches and Spikey after a bit of tidying up I got into my closet and have been creating some space to hang everything nicely.

While there I made a few discoveries such as finding a pair of tailored shorts that oddly enough would go with the uniform, being Grey  that gives me an options for playing not least actual out of doors playtime  as much as I love skirts as a gurl.

And I've gotten some new socks ready for September too

David Bowie: Ziggy Stardust

A few weeks and forty odd years ago an album was issued that became in many respects bigger than the artists own profile dominating the popular music scene for 1972/3.

It's an album almost  every student of any generation feels they have to heard never mind own regardless of what format may be prevalent at the time and it was a major musical and social influence either on me at that time.

Ziggy Stardust is a character - a singer in a rock band - and through him we see his raise to fame and tellingly his burn out that mirrors all too sadly what actually happens in real life. 

Everybody wants a piece of his pie from the management team, record label  even ultimately, the fans themselves and the artist struggles to "Hang on to yourself" to quote the title of one of the songs featured.

If the Monkees were a made for TV fabrication of a rock group based upon the Beatles, here was in many ways a more credible fabrication for the modern era -  a complete fabrication from individuals persona onward.

Any person going down down Heddon Street, London would see the buildings in the cover shot although the trash can and K West sign are long gone.

The first single off the album was Starman and I recall the first time I heard that on the radio well being aware from the billboards and older friends of this Bowie character. 

What got to me about was -and still is - is the sense of detachment, alienation even of the lead character in the lyrics and the unamerican style of singing.

I first had the album on RCA 8 track tape although my brother had the lp and have been through cassette and cd versions.

This album has been re-issued numerous times and unfortunately like most of David Bowie's back catalogue their is no such thing as a really good cd version although on the advice of a friend of mine, I got the original RCA cds from the mid 1980's which were more listenable than either the thin sounding EMI (US: Ryko) titles from 1990/91 with bonus tracks or Peter Mew's bloated and highly compressed versions from 1999 on EMI (US: Virgin).

In 1990 a boxed edition was issued by EMI with a  72 page booklet with the regular cd
recognizing it's iconic status and this June  two new editions came out.

The cd version is just a straight re-issue of the 11 track album in a card digpack cover which I can't say I really like as packaging preferring Mini Lp style i we're having paper based.

While there is a little compression on it compared to the 1984 RCA, the tonality is spot on and let's be honest here the analogue to digital conversion technology has come an awful lot in 28 years (I can hear the convertors' sound on many older cds) so for the first time ever there is a pretty acceptable in print cd even though I won't be tossing out the RCA.

Secondly and even better news is that there was a new lp lovingly mastered by Ray Staff who used to work at Porky's mastering that many of us feel surpasses the original UK orange RCA lp when it comes to sound quality and dead quiet surfaces. 

It comes with a audio dvd that will play on a computer or Blue-ray player capable of 96khz/24Bit resolution (most do) offering  both stereo and 5.1 surround sound mixes with bonus tracks which will sound smoother than the regular cd.

Recommended.

New Skirt

It's been just over four years and three months since I started this blog talking about a load of things such as myself, my interests such as music and likes in a way I had not anticipated nor perhaps you might of been expecting.

There aren't many age regressed or still a child feminine boys blogs out there.

Going forward, this new skirt is increasingly more where I'm headed at least in so far as more formalish presentations go with a nod toward office or even more college/school style as I like easy to look after on or just above the knee skirts with tights, not being given to baring huge amounts of skin.
Generally I prefer flat shoes as I can't easily walk and so need all the stability and grip I can get.

The mini kilt

Normally if we are looking at gurl presentation then there's only one that comes up but I would say there exists a whole alternative beyond dresses and more formal skirts for those who didn't wish to or would like another option to wear.

The Mini Kilt is an more modern form of kilt for gurls that has buckle adjusters but as the name would suggest goes above the knee that goes well with turn over socks or white tights and isn't linked to ceremonial wear.

Worn as such it is is very feminine which is a must for anything truly for boys who really are sissy gurls which I was wanting that.

I'd love to wear one.

The looks of a gurl

After last weeks post, I thought I'd return to something more specifically gurlish as there's no denying that how others see our own preferences for presentation often has been an issue even if our intent isn't to be deliberately provocative.

That  short pleated kilt-skirt with mary janes and knee length socks look is very much me, a younger gurl at play with your colourful fan by the beach enjoying your self thing.

We can be so conditioned by how other people have seen and even had us dress it may take a while and strict handling to rid you of any lingering hints or self doubt that in all reality you are no longer a him but a Hur, to be seen and acknowledged as a gurl from now on.

More school girl or preppy female dress is something I am very comfortable with.

It is a good idea to remind yourself of what your true nature is as a delicate, sweet submissive gurl and why you need to ensure through your dress you are sending our the "correct" message.

Kawaii and I

Something that has always been a part of me is a liking for kawaii or otherwise cute things that may or may not be be linked with cartoons, childrens tv series or the like so I wouldn't collect them in a collecting sense

With me this has everything to do with being a coping mechanism that pulls me out of anxiety and also a part of the child-like brain damaged me that needs to see, feel and play with tactile objects especially small ones as handling them helps me stay 'in the moment' and concentrate on that situation.

I really like the Sanriotown characters such as Twin Stars, My Melody, Chococat and of course Hello Kitty.

I'd be lying and probably due a spanking for it if I didn't say it goes further than either plushies of my favourite characters or innate objects like Bento boxes or playthings.

As Tammy I wish to be a very cute and pretty little sissy gurl and that can't happen unless tammy is put into very feminine foundation garments as they a part in making you look your best not being naturally curved 

There, that's more how it should be, Tammy dressed in a pretty print lolita dress, very much a pretty gurl.

Really, you know, Tammy needs to be handed over to a strong willed woman to dress her like that much more often as it would do me the world of good.

Adult little gurl presentation

This blog has always been a broad blog in terms of its coverage being more about me and my interests so it's entirely fitting to talk a little about adult little gurl presentation cos we see so much of more adult sissy presentations.

Generally given as an adult little gurl, I am a sissy who feels and acts more like a child that means my clues about who to dress are more like an actual child's even if somethings may need to be made specifically for me or involving finding suitable near equivalents in bigger sizes so I may wear something more like this.

For as long as I have lived though I have always loved pretty dresses that emphasize my shoulders, nice rounded collars and bows.

Spending a day playing with the girls was always what as a sissy I always wanted to do even to the point of playing dress up with them.

It's just so me.

Skirt length options

As the blog of a feminine gurl you would expect and there has been a few posts around one aspect that makes me different: The Way I feel comfortable about presenting as that gurl

I won't beat about the bush so will say I do love to wear skirts and dresses, not to the exclusion of short trousers as a feminine little gurl but definitely against any sort of long trousers.

Usually I have stuck to hems just a little above the knee, especially in things like school skirts but I have other tastes too.

A Good Gurl always makes the most of hur assets.

This is more the kind of short skirt I like

Usually worn with over the knee socks or tights in a casual but stylish way.