Sunday 1 January 2017

New Year reaffirmation

 Seeing this is the start of New Year one might begin this New Year looking at resolutions which we have talked about at various sites, certainly at SN, not just the more usual things around positions, material things and pay for those that are employed but more around the things we find difficulty with and in a less overtly religious way, our moral and behavioural traits not just in how they leave us but especially the impact on others of when get it wrong.

The following is the emotional age appropriate standard for me as a child/adult hybrid expressed in a way I can understand easier



Now that isn't too tall an order for me get to grips with so keeping to it is one of my most important things this year.

What I really want you all to do is help hold me to all five points of this over the year be it in a chat room, on the threads of a forum or social media and especially face to face.

I want you to be to be fair but very firm with me being prepared to chastise me as and when I deviant from such basic social norms, learning to own the consequences of my actions to help me be as responsible as I can even with my learning and developmental disabilities.

Another area that may not come up for most is really around identity, specifically gender identity which has sometimes been difficult no just for issues in society for those of us who do fall between the binary gaps but sometimes complicated by those who would claim us for their own campaigns.


Contrary to what some transgendered people have tried to make out I'm not a girl trapped in a boys body looking for permanent transformation but a gurl who likes hur body who is not socially male and a good deal more feminine than girls.

Tammy is a Sissy Gurl and is to remind everyone of hur gender this year

This is what matters the most for me in Twenty-seventeen. Being honest about and the best me.

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