This one often puzzles people be they researchers, the entire trans-gendered community and Mr & Mrs Joe Bloggs of Averagesville, Alberta.
The thing we are talking about is Gender variance the way in which as individuals we vary from the gender we were brought up with because of the mishmash between our physiological state (for the most part) and how we saw ourselves in our gender roles.
A few years ago a ground breaking book was published The Transgender Phenomenon by Ekins & King which set apart the attempt to define in the old sharply different way that of the Transvestite and the Transsexual.
They identified four main types of variance:
(1) Migrating – moving wholly over to the female which is what most would put Transsexuals
(2) Oscillating – going back and forth between roles which traditionally Transvestites would come under
(3) Negating - activities and roles where gender expression is made to be inferior or otherwise less important, eg sissification
(4) Transending – going beyond conventional binary genders
We're all different but having read several pieces by people who do love their 'sissy' side it does seem likely that for a number of us being in a setting with either a Mistress or your S.O where they are calling the shots does it for us.
It does probably because firstly we are looking to be re-raised to be female under their tuition as we play catch up, we want to feel we have met their standards as superiors.
Being 'forced', put into uniforms to carry out tradition female roles is an initiation we feel we need and also get of on as we no longer have to battle with our will to change – we going to be changed.
Also I feel many of us do have a genuine love of prettiness, a child like innocence and girlish unthreateningness – the boys were always on the cusp a big dangerous dare – and yes a touch romantic in our outlooks (we want a happy ending).
What of the Dominatrix? Maybe just maybe it has a symbolism of the Dominate mother like figure and of the strength of the female world we aspire to.
On one hand sissification can just an extension of “forced feminisation”, on the other it can be more.
It can be about submission and exploring the far reaches of femininity as a counterpoint to a masculine world.
For me this period has been interesting for being under the influence of person who is taking me way beyond my comfort zone to find the parts that are hidden.
This was one assigment I was ordered to do:
Here's what you do for your next pose x x - especially for your short - short slut skirt.
Find a chair, sit in it, cross your legs - and let your skirt ride up over your thighs and expose your stocking tops and give us a little peek at your panties.
You need to sit at a slight angle to the camera - not straight on.And another good thing for you to try is to properly stuff your bra - try different sizes of breasts to help you decide which size is just right for you and then, add a little more...
Don't be afraid to take several shots from slightly different angles.. All it takes is a little patience and you'll end up with quite a hot picture that screams slut!
I do like the outfit - it suits you. I think you have found the proper you. How does that make you feel x x - that you might be best suited to being a shameless slut?Miss D
Very good! Are you pleased with the result? You should be - you look quite nice - enticing - a glimpse of panties, thighs bared, shiny fingernails - quite femmed.
You are just being a pretty gurl posing with a hint of sexuality - there is nothing wrong with that. I think you captured the essence perfectly.
Personally I found it a relief to find and let out my sexual side, embracing it, advertising my availability. I have a "Slut" side in me.
If it takes a dominant to jolt me out of any inner censoring letting it all out then so be it.
What sayeth you?
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