Showing posts with label adulthood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label adulthood. Show all posts

Wednesday, 13 February 2019

When is it you become "of age"?


 The style of dress was and is a thing but is relative to the standards of the day but the one constant in that was the older, the more 'mature' you were the more sophisticated they tend to be until the point where conventional society sees you as a young adult at which point you would be old enough to work for a wage aka be employed.

Until 1969, in law Adulthood was not said to be fully reached until the age of 21 which corresponds with when you would finish a university degree course and before you both vote and stand for political office.

In 1969 the age of becoming an adult was lowered to 18 years which was reflected in the voting age but it wasn't within recent years that the age to stand for a local authority or as a Member of Parliament was dropped in line with that.

You could leave for work at 14+ until 1972, raised to 15 after then and more recently can only leave before 18 if you have education, training or employment arranged but that would be as a young worker - a older child and paid less.

Thus when we look back at past standards for dress you can easily see why until the late 1960's boys stayed in shorts and girls in pinafore dresses in school because they were seen as very much that and not young adults and they had no need to conform to the same dress and behavioural standards of their parent because society didn't see him as an adult.

Today some boys and girls are pushed into thinking they are older than their years assuming roles that developmentally many are not fully capable of understanding because the brain doesn't stop growing until his early twenties.

In some ways I feel that old standard of adult at twenty one was right although an argument could be made for being able to vote at eighteen as you'd have at least an awareness of the issues and given elections are every four years, the outcome of that would effect you as someone who would become "of age" three years later.

Wednesday, 12 March 2008

Big Gurl presentations for sissy


However you wrap your head around it from the more adult side of being a sissy gurl you can't, I certainly can't, deny I get something from being made radically female as a host of mainly male stereotypes evaporates.

Grown up female lingerie has certainly changed over the decades but for me beyond that of the more little sissy gurl me, I like the more classic forties and fifties fuller sort that has an air of mystery around it.

For me silky french knickers do it, clearly adult but modest, enticing but not "in your face" with lashings of lace.


A matching camisole makes for a smart sexy look befitting of  an adult gurl.




A matching pair of red bra and french knickers has its place in the adult sissy life such as the bedroom or a date maybe.

Everything that and pretty outfit can offer would be wasted if you did not attend to your make up so you really looked the part and when that's a part of you, why not?