Not one thing nor the other...

By physical sex we may be male but in reality in terms of gender we are sissy gurl, neither being a boy although we may share some interests with them nor because of our more overly feminine ways a girl almost too feminine for the modern girl or even seeing ourselves as a girl trapped in a males body.

That betweeness is what needs working on in terms of acceptance and that it can come in different ways rather than trying to assign us to a gender we just aren't and never will .