Reflections on the early years of Sissification

This week we are going back in a lot of ways to the time around a few years into this blog where I was exploring more around myself during a period where things were less buttoned up online so people like Mistress916 would be on experience project the no longer with us open house of discussing anything, Miss D was on Blogger talking about and inspiring sissies as was Miss Cassie to do so with lots of others quite publicly.

While for a variety of reasons these sites were to go an in an age where courting the likes of Apple to carry Apps and where people like PayPal have issues with who and what you wish to do transitions with even if they're legal, the legacy of those days lives on and through some of us.

One thing they had us doing was experimenting with different looks requiring us to write in and post photographs of ourselves for critical and analytical comments and further suggestions to mine while getting us to open up about how we felt about that person in the picture and what that revealed of our real true nature.

In the spirit of this, I'm putting a picture of Tammy the sissy gurl  up as as Mistress916 always said a sissy should not be be a wasted thing because they are a thing of beauty.

Here I am in some blue satin frilly panties looking the part with hur sissy stick just detectable for other sissies and mistresses who may view the blog.

I am sure Miss D would be proud of the sissy gurl I became when I first encountered and corresponded with Her when just over six years ago I agreed to work with her exploring my sissieness as a dominant with her in charge.

With love from Tammy.

Creating Little Headspace

I'm a little late starting this entry cos I've been Poorly over the last few days but I had noticed a few people talking about Headspace which I know I had talked about in February.

For some it begins and ends with just 'the play' for others it may extend into dressing more like the age of the 'child within' while do so with say dresses that wouldn't be far removed  from that of a young girl at a party or play clothes like dungarees or for some school wear.

Being a little sissy gurl I can wear short trousers and for sorts of playing they may be less revealing but gurls like me belong in the dresses associated with girls such as a traditional pinafore dress or gymslip.

I think the first thing I will say is this space is very much as you, yourself make it and you do need bring something to being in it even if you may be fortunate to have either a Caregiver do things with you or you go to any number of littles activities where organizers do lay on activities because you're the one  'doing' them to getting into that sense of being more child-like.

Because anyone for a host of reasons isn't able  - and I do understand - to get out either as much as they like or at all due to lack or disabilities perhaps doesn't mean you are unable to  but you'll need to create them where you are.

The second thing is, to do this we need to remove as much 'groan up' mental background noise as we can, not just technology (sometimes  super intrusive) but also anything that distract us from playing in the way as kids we did.

If you can add a few touches like cute 'throws' (aka Covers) over furniture, I'd suggest bringing out the one thing you loved from your childhood first and putting it in your room unless you're fortunate to have a already set up play space.

It may be a favourite plushie, a teddy or doll you hugged, talked to and created adventures with. I can't speak for you but you may of played at being a Vet, a Doctor or an Astronaut with them but we're going back in time and buried away are just the memories you need to get back to where you were.

Some people like something a little less imagination centred but fun nonetheless such as watching a Disney movie or cartoon series that they find takes them back.

The other approach may appeal to those of us who like difficulties aside to do art to draw, colour or paint but allowing our 'inner child' to tell us and in way do the activity that relates to their interest and age range which is something personally I feel matters for your own well-being.

Some find littles role playing games and sites helpful in getting into that 'role' opening up your inner child's thoughts and expressing them with others.

The important thing here is you do create that space to go back, enjoying the experience.

My panties matter

To me making that move from scratchy itchy boy Y fronts  is one of the most important things in embracing feminization it’s a daily reminder of your femininity and your role as a sissy gurl aka a Jane Girl. I love the feeling of soft satin panties rubbing against my delicate skin. 

One of your first feminization steps as a sissy gurl, will be to replace all your old male underwear with cute frilly pink coloured panties that you must wear everyday!

Wearing panties became part of my daily routine.

Let's face it silk knickers make you feel like queen of the sissy gurls, they give you a luxurious, sexy and very feminine look. Silk material is naturally elastic and will hug your curves, giving you a more feminine shape.

The smooth, sweet and shiny texture of silk panties is definitely what we need being very soft on your skin, so you can still be comfortable.

I love how they envelop and caress my boy parts as silk and nylon giving you so much more of constantly knowing you are in girl's undies feeling as they are encased in pretty frilly lace.

Complete with a bows, my knickers announce to all my sissy gurl nature whither or not they are over short trousers, skirts or dresses.

They belong on sissies like me and after a while you start to find you are wishing to explore more of being that sissy.

A sissy’s way of thinking is different from a typical man’s. Sissies are very submissive and willing in a sexual way. They really want attention and approval from someone dominant.

To become more like a sissy, you need to start thinking and acting like one. That means being more submissive, sexually willing, and emotionally expressive. You also need to want attention and approval from someone dominant, but you might already fantasize about this.

The next crucial step in this process is to fully embrace and embody your sissy identity. You must begin to see yourself as a sexual object, existing solely for the pleasure and use of others. It may be a challenging task, but it is essential if you truly want to become a proficient sissy.

A bedroom for feminine LSG you

 This time we're looking at the bedroom of the little sissy gurl cos too few talk about it.

A big chunk of the other blog is more around the life of a Middle while this looks at the other aspects of being a middle with a littleside but given the connectedness a post around it is justified.

The bedroom of a Middle I feel should be as close to that of a Tween or younger teen as possible not necessarily tradition in it's furnishings but true to original intent of being her place of rest and sleep, away from the buzz of daytime.

It should be very much an expression of their girlish innocence with cute simple bedding with matching curtains and lightshades with just what she needs to get her beauty sleep in and nothing more being free from techo attractions calling her as she lies in bed.

There will be shelving for their plushies, teddies and dollies that are not in the bed or positioned on the chair as well as his books with a small rack for current comics that they read by themselves with a small angle right.

One thing there will not be is a place for their cellphone or netbook to be resting because you will have them hand them over to you as his Caregiver before he goes to bed and be given then once he is up because you are responsible for this as their privilege.

You may restrict other technology such as audio or tv stuff  preferring them to share with others and view with you to help keep a close shared bond alive rather than have retreat to a inner world avoiding conversation.

There will be a wardrobe with enough space to hang gurlish clothes including her uniform properly on hangers with space for shoes and slippers and draws for her underwear in addition to the cute pj's you'll put them in like the little sissy they are.

The overall feel will be light and airy with lots of space to twirl around in and walk along with ease across the whole room.

You will have rules about keep it tidy being prepared to work with him but you will spank their bottom firmly in the room when he fails too without good reason so she learns the importance in doing this and following the rules.